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Karen Maloy's avatar

I am a witness to your learning, Jen. I have no context for this experience because I am of Irish Catholic descent on both sides in my family. I think what you are doing is crucial - educating those of us who really have no clue about the way *this* kind of trauma shows up in the world. Your perspective is so unique, as you go through the conversion process and take us along with you, at least in part. It needs to be understood by the OUTSIDE world. Because ultimately, it is that outside world that inflicts the horror. It's both things, I think, as you are writing about in real time: the need for insularity within a community in order for the community to heal, and the need for witnesses who can then see the signs in the outer world and, having learned what to look for, use their privilege and power to do what is necessary and possible within their own sphere of influence. Thank you for writing.

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Prajna O'Hara's avatar

Thank you for sharing this, deep bow 🙏

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